Gun control discussions always follows in the wake of mass shootings. To be objective it is fair to acknowledge both sides have valid arguments. In my case, I know my feelings that do not line up every one, I make a desperate play to bend subject away from guns.
An obvious vector is to talk about mental health reform. One side might argue there is a need for increased access to competent care while the other favors tracking individuals who suffer from mental illness. Before you know it, you are standing in another mine field. I am reminded of the tag line of the eighties movie War Games, “the only way to win, is to not play.”
How do you cross the mass shooting mine field without losing a limb or at least a friend?
Acts of Kindness
Today the families of the Sandy Hook tragedy asked that their loved ones be remembered by “acts of kindness.” Over the last year, with much reflection the families agree that the best way to honor their loved one doesn't is to simply be kind.
Take a moment to think of the how actions can feed the seeds of hate or nurture the growth of good.
Think of every person that you encounter in a given day as someone who needs to be recognized as important. Smile and genuinely ask how people are, wish the store clerk a good day, ask about the guy who takes your groceries to your car how his day is going.
Empathy and Encouragement
Use the powerful tools of empathy and encouragement. Do you get frustrated with technical support? Remember the person on the end of the phone rarely gets calls from happy customers, let him know you understand. When you get exceptional service, forward your praise to a manager.
If you have every been lonely, invite someone to sit down for a cup of coffee or to share a holiday. If you have ever been discouraged, tell someone who is struggling that things will get better and that they have everything they need to see them through.
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